I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “Common courtesy.” However, these days it seems to be in scarce supply. Courtesy is defined as, “politeness of manners; especially, politeness connected with kindness; civility; considerateness.” Having thoughtfulness toward our fellow man is virtuous. Please ponder the following ways you can practice courtesy.
(1) Keep your word. God is the Ultimate standard in this matter. In fact, “it is impossible for God to lie” (Hebrews 6:18). Consider one example. “Blessed be Jehovah, that hath given rest unto his people Israel, according to all that he promised: there hath not failed one word of all his good promise, which he promised by Moses his servant” (1 Kings 8:56). What about your word? If you tell your boss you will perform a certain task, do you follow through? When talking with your mate, can he or she count on you? Did your vows include “for better or for worse”? Parents should be particularly careful to build trust in their children. Their dependability will greatly mold the habits of their offspring.
(2) Use words of courtesy. In our self-centered culture, some people find words of kindness unpalatable. Make it your pledge to use “Thank you” more often. Read Luke 17:11-19. Phone and Internet exchanges are woefully lacking in courtesy. Some have no qualms with making a call and beginning with: “Hey, give me…!” Yes, many phones provide caller identification, but why not still be courteous and identify yourself in a kind manner? You may be a busy person (who is not?), but taking only a moment to be courteous will pay dividends.
(3) Be on time. We are not talking about delays that are out of our control. Let’s be frank. Tardiness is often followed up with a multitude of pitiful excuses. Being avoidably late is inconsiderate. When we keep others waiting, it often sends a demeaning message – as if peasants must wait upon a king. Our 1,001 excuses fall upon deaf ears when others know we can be punctual for things we deem important. For example, some fans are known to camp-out before sales begin in order to secure a coveted movie or ballgame ticket.
(4) Practice the “Golden Rule.” Read Matthew 7:12. This Divine principle, if implemented, will make a person of courtesy out of you. You will treat others with the courtesy you wish to receive. If you desire others to be kind, but frank with you, such will be your treatment of others. “One of the most difficult things to give away is kindness, for it is usually returned!”
