Suggestions for a Happier Family Life

Several years ago, I read an article that focused attention on practical steps that we may take to better ensure a happier family life. Among the suggestions penned were the following: Keep the marriage relationship first. This is not only scriptural, but it is also wise, knowing that a child’s security is best served by the love existing between father and mother. Learn to show affection in both word and deed, developing a like for family members with a willingness to communicate it. Keep a check on materialism while learning how to provide what is needed for healthy development. Our greater interest should be in people rather than items. Build memories by using family time as an opportunity to build a “Museum of Memories.” Strive to answer ego needs as we enjoy being around people who do us good and as we lose self in the service of others. Build honor and expectation as we instill in our family a balanced sense of pride so that one will expect more of self. These six suggestions, though age-old, may be of great value as we pass through this year and look to the arrival of many more, all with the hope and promise of better things for self and those we love so dearly.