Paul Simon sang “I Am a Rock” in August 1965. The lyrics portray someone wounded by friendship and determined to live totally alone like a rock that feels no pain. Many have experienced down times like that, but then, they realize they cannot live alone.
Each man has four key relationships, beginning with God. We need to give our bodies to Him in sacrificial living (Romans 12:1-2). We will have all our needs provided if we seek His kingdom first (Matthew 6:33). Man’s ultimate purpose is to hold God in awe and do His will (Ecclesiastes 12:13).
Christian brothers hold tightly to the good, showing proper affection for brothers, while giving them honor (Romans 12:9-10; Ephesians 4:32). Stealing is given up when we submit to God. God’s children work with their hands so they may be able to supply others’ needs and stay on the lookout for such opportunities (Ephesians 4:28; Galatians 6:10).
Those who have God as their Father also have a unique relationship with those who make them suffer (Romans 12:14; 2 Timothy 3:12). We all have enemies. One 93-year-old man said he had no enemies. When asked how he explained it, he said, “I outlived the rascals!” Christians should do their best to live peaceably with everyone, knowing God will take vengeance on those who deserve it because of their treatment of His people (Romans 12:17-21).
Governmental authorities have not always treated God’s people well, but any power they have comes from the Almighty (Romans 13:1). Jesus told Pilate, “You could have no power at all against Me unless it had been given you from above” (John 19:11). Christ’s followers will follow the law, knowing governments exist to keep civil order (Romans 13:2-4). Paul was willing to die if he deserved it (Acts 25:9-11).
It is impossible to live as a rock, all alone. We must cultivate the best possible relationships with God, our brothers, our enemies and governmental authorities. This is the means of our showing what controls our lives.
