It is obvious King Lemuel’s mother wanted the best for her son (Proverbs 31). She warned him against improper relationships with women and the dangers of alcohol when carrying out the important duties of a king. She also gave him a beautiful picture of the type of woman who would make a wonderful wife.
The worthy woman has her family’s respect. Her husband places his full trust in her. “She does him good and not evil All the days of her life” (Proverbs 31:10-12). She is such a help to him that he is known among the leaders of the city in which he lives (Proverbs 31:23). Her children speak well of her, and her husband praises her (Proverbs 31:28-29).
The wise use of money is characteristic of the worthy woman. Her hands are busily at work, toiling well into the night making yarn (Proverbs 31:13, 16-19). Her labors include making things to sell to merchants. She watches her family and provides for their needs (Proverbs 31:24, 27).
Food will be prepared for her family, even when it means getting up well before the sun rises (Proverbs 31:14-15). Every member of her household has warm clothing. She strives to look nice, wearing fine linen and purple (Proverbs 31:21-22).
The words of a worthy woman are filled with wisdom and kindness (Proverbs 31:26). She is not like the young widow who spends her time gossiping and telling others how to conduct their business (1 Timothy 5:13). She would not be a false accuser like the devil (Titus 2:3).
Reverent service to the Lord is the worthy woman’s most beautiful attribute (Proverbs 31:30). She cares for the poor and needy (Proverbs 31:20). The good works of a worthy woman are well spoken of in the gates of the city, where the leaders sit (Proverbs 31:31).
We are blessed beyond measure by mothers who are worthy women. Praise God! We should regularly give thanks for our mothers and strive to imitate their hard work and reverence for God.
