Father’s Day is a day set aside for honoring fathers, whether present or only in memory. It is appropriate to consider both the role and importance of dads, especially in today’s society. The past few years have brought confusion regarding the role of fathers, whether their role is essential or not. Despite those who clamor for a merging or elimination of traditional mother/father roles in the family, they are fundamental to the well-being of the family and of society. Statistics indicate over 80% of juveniles in trouble (at school, with authorities, etc.) come from single parent homes, or homes with someone other than parents as primary caregivers. Being a father is an essential responsibility for healthy families.
In a very real sense, fathers should serve as examples of our Heavenly Father, demonstrating genuine love, discipline and concern for their children. This is what Paul encouraged when he wrote, “And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4). To bring up children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord implies the need of fathers to be committed to the Lord and His will for their lives. Such fathers are by no means perfect, but in realizing God’s love for them, and how He works all things for their good (Romans 8:28), they seek to exemplify those same qualities for their children’s sake. Such fathers are worthy of respect and honor (Ephesians 6:2).
These qualities of fatherhood were seen in Abraham. Like all of us, Abraham had his faults, but he loved God and his son Isaac (Genesis 22:2, 12), which speaks volumes about him seeking the best for his child. Regarding this, God Himself testified, “For I have known him, in order that he may command his children and his household after him, that they keep the way of the Lord, to do righteousness and justice, that the Lord may bring to Abraham what He has spoken to him” (Genesis 18:19). When a father seeks this kind of attitude, he will offer his best for others because he offers what comes from God, the Father of mercies (2 Corinthians 1:3).
Thank God for such fathers, for they are essential for our children’s future. May we honor such by seeking to put the spiritual first in our lives, exemplifying what life is really all about.
