There is an element of rule involved in the eldership’s work of the Lord, and there is to be respect given by the brethren (Hebrews 13:17). Such rulership is to be understood much as the wife is to be submissive to her husband (Ephesians 5:25-28). There is to be such love that working together for the common good is desired over and above any personal decision or will. Warning is given by Peter of the ‘lording over God’s Heritage’ (1 Peter 5:1-4).
The use of grievous words can be used to lord over others (Proverbs 15:1). We are not to use grievous words that stir up anger. Thoughts can result in a special look of the eyes and face, which is evil (Deuteronomy 15:9). Mannerism of walk and folding of the arms can result in evil (Deuteronomy 31:29). Divine instruction warns to avoid being around angry people (Proverbs 22:24-25). There are those who are quick to get angry (Proverbs 14:17), yet sometimes such men are found in the eldership of the church.
I know these verses are in the Old Testament. Believe me, there are corresponding verses in the New Testament, and such words as “as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her” (Ephesians 5:25) show us the true manners of the loving Savior and loving Shepherds, too. Discouragement is a plague of many homes and congregations. Who is spreading such a plague? Does this come from the membership and rise up to the leadership of the church, or is it coming from the leadership’s failure to encourage the congregation?
The leading of the flock away from the ghosts of fear and doubt must be done by good, godly elders. The eldership needs to have the vision to see the dangers faced by brethren and address those dangers with discussions in Bible classes, bringing in capable, outside teachers or preachers who address the needs of the hour and by writing timely articles that are filled with encouragement. The brethren can be reminded of the Lord’s promises (Matthew 28:20; Romans 8:28) that He is with us and all things will work together for our good. Yes, it is often in the eyes, hands and attitudes displayed by church rulers that provoke us to love and good works (Hebrews 10:24).
