Surely, we do not need to have these words defined. In fact, we probably know too that God expects these characteristics to be in our lives. However, knowing what a word means and even knowing that God wants us to make kindness, compassion and caring a part of our lives does not guarantee that we have fully put them into practice. Therefore, let me bring this to our remembrance.
Love is the basis for all these attributes. God’s Word tells us, “love is kind” (1 Corinthians 13:4). Kindness is enjoined/commanded (Ephesians 4:32). We are to put on kindness (Colossians 3:12). So, there is no doubt that kindness should be a trait of every Christian. One good example of kindness is Joseph. In spite of the way his brothers treated him, he was most kind to them and to their families (Genesis 50:21). Because of his love for Jonathan, David sought to show kindness to anyone left in the house of Saul (2 Samuel 9:lff). Even Barbarians showed kindness to Paul and his company while they were on the island of Mileta (Acts 28:1-2). Surely, Christians can show kindness to their fellow man.
Compassion was an evident quality of the Son of God. One of many occasions where Jesus is said to be compassionate was on a teaching and healing tour recorded in Matthew 9. The Scripture says, “but when he saw the multitudes, he was moved with compassion for them, because they were distressed and scattered, as sheep not having a shepherd” (9:36). With care and compassion, we need to help others and give to their needs (Acts 20:35). With compassion put, yourself in the place of those in adversity as though you were in adversity (Hebrews 13:3). The good Samaritan was an excellent example for us (Luke 10:33).
Members of the Lord’s church should always care one for another (1 Corinthians 12:25). The apostle Paul cared for the church (2 Corinthians 11:28). He was concerned that when he came to Corinth he would find them not such as he would, but that he would find them involved in “quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder” (2 Corinthians 12:20).
We must care for the church and each member thereof. One of my favorite examples of caring is Mordecai. The Scripture tells us, “and Mordecai walked every day before the court of the women’s house, to know how Esther did, and what would become of her” (Esther 2:11). There is no doubt; he really cared for his ward. Kindness, compassion and caring – let us make them a part of our lives.
